From time to time, it’s good to review why having a complete, up-to-date estate plan is so important. In addition to confirming our own actions, it can provide us with valuable information to pass along to friends and family who, for whatever reasons, have yet to act. So, here are five common estate planning mistakes to avoid.


1. NOT HAVING A PLAN. Colorado has laws for distributing the property of someone who dies without an estate plan—but not very many people would be pleased with the results. Colorado leaves a percentage of the deceased’s assets to family members. (Non-family members, like an unmarried partner, will not receive any assets.) It is common for the surviving spouse and children to each receive a share, which often means the surviving spouse will not have enough money to live on. If the children are minors, the court will control their inheritances until they reach legal age (usually 18), at which time they will receive the full amount. (Most parents prefer their children inherit later when they are more mature.)


2. NOT NAMING A GUARDIAN FOR MINOR CHILDREN. A guardian for minor children can only be named through a will. If the parents have not done this, and both die before the children reach legal age, the court will have to name someone to raise them without knowing whom the parents would have chosen.


3. RELYING ON JOINT OWNERSHIP. Many older people add an adult child to the title of their assets (especially their home), often to avoid probate. But this can create all kinds of problems. When you add a co-owner, you lose control. Jointly-owned assets are now exposed to the co-owner’s creditors, divorce proceedings and possible misuse of the assets, and the co-owner must agree to all business transactions. There could be gift and/or income tax issues. And if you have more than one child but only name one to be co-owner with you, fluctuating values could cause your children to receive unbalanced/unintended inheritances.


4. NOT PLANNING FOR INCAPACITY. If someone cannot conduct business due to mental or physical incapacity, only a court appointee can sign for this person—even if a valid will exists. (A will only goes into effect after death.) The court usually stays involved until the person recovers or dies and the court, not the family, will control how their assets are used to provide for their care. The process is public and can become expensive, embarrassing, time consuming and difficult to end.


Giving someone power of attorney as a way to avoid the court process can be risky because that person can do anything they want with your assets with no real restrictions. For this reason, a living trust is often preferred for incapacity planning. With a trust, the person(s) you choose to act for you can do so without court interference, yet they are held to a higher standard as a trustee; if they misuse their power, they can be held accountable.


Someone also needs to be given the power to make health care decisions for you (including life and death decisions) if you are unable to make them for yourself. Without a designated health care agent, you could be kept alive by artificial means for an indefinite period of time. (Remember Terri Schiavo? Terri’s story and information about the Terri Schiavo Foundation can be found at, ) The exorbitant costs of long term care, most of which are not covered by health insurance or Medicare, must also be part of incapacity planning. Consider long term care insurance to protect your assets.


5. NOT KEEPING YOUR PLAN UP TO DATE. Every estate plan is based on the personal, family and financial situations, and tax laws, in effect at the time it was created. All of these will change over time, and your plan needs to change with them. It’s a good idea to review your plan every couple of years or so and make sure it still does what you want it to do. Your attorney will let you know when a tax law change might affect your plan, but you need to let your attorney know about other changes that could affect it.


6. NOT HAVING A COORDINATED ESTATE PLAN. It can be difficult to coordinate multiple beneficiary designations and titles so that your beneficiaries inherit the way you want. For example, while the benefit payable from a life insurance policy generally remains the same, real estate and investment values can fluctuate greatly. This makes it quite possible that one beneficiary will receive more and another will receive less than you intended. Keeping beneficiary designations and titles balanced while you are living is a challenge; impossible if you should become ill or incapacitated. Also, if a beneficiary dies, you may want to control who ultimately receives that share of your estate instead of it letting the beneficiary choose who will receive it.


One easy way to coordinate all assets into one coordinated plan is to make a trust the owner and beneficiary of as many assets as possible, then put the distribution instructions in the trust document. This ensures that each beneficiary will receive the correct proportionate amount of the estate, regardless of the value of an individual asset. To add a beneficiary or change a beneficiary’s inheritance, only the instructions in the trust document need to be updated; this is a much simpler process than having to change multiple titles and beneficiary designations. The trust can also include your instructions for what happens to a beneficiary’s share upon his/her death, preventing the inheritance from falling into the hands of someone you might not approve of.


7. NOT FUNDING A TRUST. A trust can only control the assets that are placed into it. The document may be written well and have excellent instructions, but until it is “funded” (by changing titles and beneficiary designations), the trust doesn’t control anything.


8. NOT TITLING NEWLY ACQUIRED ASSETS IN THE TRUST’S NAME. It is not unusual for people to transfer existing assets to their trust but then forget to add new ones. It bears repeating—a trust can only control the assets that are placed into it. Any assets purchased or accounts established after the initial funding is complete must also be titled in the name of the trust so they can be part of your complete, coordinated plan.


9. NOT USING A QUALIFIED ATTORNEY. Estate planning is not something that should be attempted with a kit or online program. A simple mistake or omission can have far reaching effects that only come to light after you are gone. A local, experienced estate planning attorney understands the terms and legal requirements in your state. Most have counseled many families and have seen the results of proper and improper planning.


An experienced attorney can guide and assist you in making smart decisions about your estate planning, including who should be the guardian of minor children; how to provide for a child or elderly parent with special needs; how to provide for children fairly (which may not be equally); and how to protect an inheritance from creditors and irresponsible spending.


If you need help with your estate planning, please contact my office. I will be happy to help you create the plan you desire or update the one you already have.